1-They had an episode called “Ching Chong Chang”, episode 6, season 3, which is Chang’s whole story but also a story about beauty standards. And it involves biker bitches who are elderly. Frieda. And a brief debate where Flaca tries to rile up the black girls by pointing out that Beyonce dresses like Piper, not an African. And the black girls immediately just go — yeah, she’s playing the white girl game alright…and winning, bitch!
3- They have a whole season 2 where we’re indoors because it’s cold, and so the stars are all women who are there for reasons other then outdoor-wear. We know who four old women are. Frieda, Taslitz, Jimmy the one who was demented, and then the black one who wants no part in Freida’s mayhem when it gets beyond gardening and contraband. So after Taslitz is put in max for attacking the wrong Vee — and appears in Season 4 when we see Nicky, she nods hello on the yard and then Nicky goes and sits down next to Stella — Frieda has a front-and-center role with the others. She becomes maybe the fourth most relied on inmate for story.
1- Debbie is boobies, Fiona is ass. So all stories involving physical strength go to Debbie, all stories of sexual expectations, hiding in small environments, harrassment (pinching and such), go right to Fiona.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Orange—
4- Now, Autostraddle, the lesbian site which had volumes of Orange is the New Black articles and I read them all over the years, pointed out that black women are never given any real sexual play on Orange when they’re obese. Once you get beyond Suzanne, who does in fact have a sex scene (brief, in a closet and the lights are completely off), Cindy and Taystee weren’t given anything. But in Season 7, this is corrected. Young free Cindy gets pregnant by an athlete and they show the sex scene. The reason why the article held sway for years though was because Boo was given a sex scene in Season 3, in her flashback. She had a strap-on and then her girlfriend climbed off.
Orange Is The New Black and Shameless do it seamlessly.
A cautious culture cost Novo Nordisk its lead in the obesity drug race, former employees say - statnews.com
2-There is another one, the second one in Season 2, so the doubleheader that begins Season 2, the first part is Piper in Chicago and this second part is what the rest of the cast in Litchfield is up to. It’s the introduction of Vee. Before she arrives, Taystee was thoroughly fixated on winning a job from career day. Her, Cindy, Leanne, Flaca, Nicky, and Morello go up on stage in different outfits that they picked out voluntarily, and then the presenter shows why each one is a shit idea for a job interview. Each are wearing a thoroughly different outfit. Black Cindy has a gown on. Taystee has tried to tuck her big belly in a tiny secretary’s skirt. Morello, so fine, has a sailor outfit on like Betty Boop in World War II. Nicky looks cool as fuck, like Jackie Brown, so the lady gets on her for her Jew-fro. I was almost offended! And Leanne who I always thought could be kinda sexy — I like how her hair serves no more purpose on her head then the minimal purpose. She stands behind Pennsatucky while she’s got a knife to Piper in the shower — bad ass fucking scene in Season 1 — and Leanne was kinda hot. Leanne in this career day scene is having a hard hard time with those heels. Hopping hopping…get your foot in there…hopping…She needs to work on that, then she can come see me haha. The winner is Flaca. She is skinny…and likes gothic makeup and that band My Chemical Romance…I think Flaca would be someone you could get wealthy with. As an entrepreneur. She’s heard of everything. She’d go “Ahhh…I see what you could do with that…like if you did this and added this…”
5- Judy King was a champion for old woman sexiness. At first I didn’t buy it even a little. Now, I imagine her in some toeless ass heels and slacks. And she ages three years before this happens. I could see how the very old version of myself would be like lets call Judy…
SHAMELESS
I want to touch my sister’s boobs. What do I say?
2- V is so fine. And she is the only black woman character. It’s such a cop out. So they just point to V? Look! We got diversity! Shameless is like the typical Chicago poor black experience but if white people were going through it. It’s like White Man’s Burden but there are no black bosses.
